In spite of myself
So I had written out this whole post about how I was dealing with the problem of the guy. I deleted the post though. I'll tell you this much, I decided I was going to cut back on talking to him. It worked yesterday so I was hopeful. He was in the office a number of times and I managed to not say a word to him. Today didn't work and it's only 9:30. It's frustrating for me but mostly because I can't admit to myself what I really want. I am trying to convince me that I'm being ridiculous about the whole thing.
Well it's a rainy day in the south. We need it too. The only problem is that it's not bringing cooler weather with it. It may cool off next week but I'm really tired of these 85 degree days. I WANT IT TO BE FALL!!!
Well it's a rainy day in the south. We need it too. The only problem is that it's not bringing cooler weather with it. It may cool off next week but I'm really tired of these 85 degree days. I WANT IT TO BE FALL!!!
8 Comments:
You are definitely not being ridiculous. You can't help feeling attraction to certain people. You can control what you do about it, and you're doing that, so cut yourself some slack :) Besides, in some situations, you're forced to interact with people for professional reasons, so you have to be realistic. But if he starts throwing his underwear at you, you might have to take drastic action. Heh heh.
I didn't tell you but it did kind of cross a professional line the other day with something he said. If I weren't already into him, then it would have been really bad.
Was it about his underwear? That is not appropriate! ;)
It was underwear adjacent, the posterior to be exact. If we were in a relationship I would think these comments were kinda cute. But we're not and I still think he's seeing someone which makes it all terrible.
I'm telling you, as someone who's been the girlfriend with the flirtatious boyfriend, that idea really rubs me the wrong way that he'd do that to her. But everybody's relationship is different so who knows. So he was referencing your hiney or his?
His own. I told him where something was located and it just happened to be down low. He made some comment that I was making him do that so I could look at his butt. I really wasn't trying to check out his butt. Honestly! But I can report that he wears briefs.
I was the other woman once and I hated it. I definitely don't condone that kind of behavior.
You made me laugh out loud with that thing about briefs. Briefs. They're like the red-headed stepchild of the underwear world.
My personal favorites are those boxer-briefs. Not every guy can pull those off though.
Ann-we really could have had this conversation on email today.
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